If A Man Wants You..

If a man wants you
Nothing can keep him away

If he doesn't want you
Nothing can make him stay
Not sex
Not a baby

Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be

Slower is better
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck NO
You can't "be friends"
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend

Don't settle if you feel like he is stringing you along
Then he probably is

Don't stay because you think "it will get better
" You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better

The only person you can control in a relationship is you

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women

He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant
Why would he treat you any differently

Always have your own set of friends separate from his

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you

Never let a man know everything
He will use it against you later

You cannot change a man's behaviour
Change comes from within

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...
Even if he has more education or a better job

Do not make him into a quasi-god
He is a man
Nothing more nothing less

Never let a man define who you are

Never borrow someone else's man
If he cheated with you
He'll cheat on you

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you
All men are NOT dogs

You should not be the one doing all the bending
Compromise is two way street
You need time to heal between relationships...
There is nothing cute about baggage...

Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you..
A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...
Look for someone complimentary not supplementary

Dating is fun...
Even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right

Make him miss you sometimes
When a man always know where you are and you are always readily available to him
He takes you for granted

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need
Don't commit to a man who don't have your time

Keep him in your radar
But get to know others

Remember relationship is for two
Always check if your alone
If u are alone
Don't walk out
FLY OUT