Some of us complain of problems in marriage and some are down with one sickness or the other simply because we don't want to overlook those irrelevant things.Why on earth should a woman carry the husband's phone when he is in the bathroom just because she wants to catch him in his sexcapades? Why create time just to drive around town looking for where his car is parked? Why liaise with your female friends to get him caught when some of them are after him and ready to take him from you? Na high blood pressure you wan give yourself so.I don't think this is necessary because even the man preaching to you and kissing his wife on national TV could have his girlfriend sitting right in front of him.You see your husband's friend kiss his wife as they move along the road and to you,he's the best husband on earth;he could be the chief of all sinners and your husband a saint to him. A guy here on Facebook will always use his wife's picture as his profile picture; you won't even get to see his own face here. But right there on his page are three of his girlfriends. This very randy guy uses that to deceive the poor woman and showers all kinds of praises on her meanwhile, one of the girlfriends on his page is a married woman. Ladies, your pastor may shower those praises on his wife with his girlfriend sitting right on the first row.
I know every woman wants to be celebrated by her man. I know we all love it when our pictures are used as his profile picture. I know we love to be hugged and kissed by him as we walk with friends. But I also know that some men are not good at it and yet they are better than some smart thieves. Just ignore those things that lead to sickness and the end of happiness in your marriage; keep loving and praying for him. With age,he will get tired and come home even if he sleeps with two daily.
"I don't think marriage should be for everyone.Some married people should have been advised to remain single.I see preachers jump from place to place all in the name of crusades and evangelism.This has made a good number of our pastors' wives to become promiscuous,going after other men and church assistants and in most cases recently,lesbianism.
A lot of people condemn John Wesley's wife,but I don't because she was a woman who wanted intimacy with her husband.When Kenneth Haggin went before the Lord to complain about his wife's constant nagging over his ignoring her,the Lord told him that his first ministry is his home.Benny Hinn's marriage recently ended because of this same problem (thank God they are back together).
The preachers are not the only ones guilty of this;our politicians and top business men are worse. Even working class women are guilty of this.
Women allow spirituality take the place of intimacy in marriage.Are you supposed to ignore your husband just because your pastor or his wife wants to travel with you?You don't cook for your husband but you go to the market for your pastor and his wife?Your pastor knows everything that happens in your home,even how many times you sleep with your husband.You are of all women,most miserable.
Draw a line between spirituality or do I say,religious devotion,and marriage.Dress to please your husband and never your pastor.
Mr preacher and prayer warrior,please stop using crusades as an excuse to ignore your wife and home because God will hold you responsible for her failures and mistakes."
Source: Amara Blessing
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